Amy Tan Quotes (1952-)

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Amy Ruth Tan (譚恩美 Tán Ēnměi) (born February 19, 1952) is an American author best known for her novel The Joy Luck Club (1989), which was adapted into a 1993 film. She is also known for other novels, short story collections, children's books, and a memoir.

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“Look at this face. Do you see my foolish hope?”
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“Why are you attracted only to Chinese nonsense?”
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“I was no longer scared. I could see what was inside me.”
“Your father is not my first husband. You are not those babies.”
“I have always known a thing before it happens.”
“It is because I had so much joy that I came to have so much hate.”
“I saw what I had been fighting for: it was for me, a scared child...”
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“Even though I was young, I could see the pain of the flesh and the worth of the pain.”
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“Now that I'm angry at Harold, it's hard to remember what was so remarkable about him.”
“You see what power is – holding someone else's fear in your hand and showing it to them.”
“Whenever I'm with my mother, I feel as though I have to spend the whole time avoiding land mines.”
“I discovered that maybe it was fate all along, that faith was just an illusion that somehow you're in control.”
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“Then you must teach my daughter this same lesson. How to lose your innocence but not your hope. How to laugh forever.”
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“For woman is yin, the darkness within, where untempered passions lie. And man is yang, bright truth lighting our minds.”
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“I wanted my children to have the best combination: American circumstances and Chinese character. How could I know these things do not mix?”
“People look at me as this very, I don't know, Confucius-like wise person — which I'm not. They don't see all the shit that I've been through.”
“Over the years, she told me the same story, except for the ending, which grew darker, casting long shadows into her life, and eventually into mine.”
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“I remember wondering why it was that eating something good could make me feel so terrible, while vomiting something terrible could make me feel so good.”
“I had new thoughts, willful thoughts, or rather thoughts filled with lots of won'ts. I won't let her change me, I promised myself. I won't be what I'm not.”
“Only two kind of daughters. Those who are obedient and those who follow their own mind! Only one kind of daughter can live in this house. Obedient daughter!”
“After the gold was removed from my body I felt lighter, more free. They say this is what happens if you lack metal. You begin to think as an independent person.”
“Everyone must dream. We dream to give ourselves hope. To stop dreaming — well, that’s like saying you can never change your fate. Isn’t that true?”
“My mother had a look on her face that I'll never forget. It was one of complete despair and horror, for losing Bing, for being so foolish as to think she could use faith to change fate.”
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“When I want something to happen — or not happen — I begin to look at all events and all things as relevant, an opportunity to take or avoid.
I found the opportunity.”
“I would never require anyone to read any book. That seems antithetical to why we read — which is to choose a book for our personal reasons. I always shudder when I’m told my books are on required reading lists.”

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Amy Tan on The Little Prince

“The Little Prince is another lost soul I clung to.”
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Amy Tan on Relevance

“I began to look at all events and all things as relevant, an opportunity to take or avoid.”
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Amy Tan on Muses

“Who knows where inspiration comes from. Perhaps it arises from desperation. Perhaps it comes from the flukes of the universe, the kindness of the muses.”
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Amy Tan on Inspiration

“Who knows where inspiration comes from. Perhaps it arises from desperation. Perhaps it comes from the flukes of the universe, the kindness of the muses.”

Amy Tan on The Catcher in the Rye

“I made it a point to read banned books, like “The Catcher in the Rye,” which led to counseling sessions with a youth minister, who told me such books would give me sinful feelings. That incident solidified feelings I have about the power of books and one’s helplessness without them.”
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Amy Tan on The Bible

“[What book has had the greatest impact on you?] Probably the Bible. My father was a minister, and I heard verses every day. I memorized big whacks of passages to earn progressive levels of pins. The repetitive rhythms of the Bible were inscribed in my writing brain from childhood. (And it may account for my tendency to start sentences with “and.”) Many of my stories also relate to undoing handed-down beliefs, whether they come from religion, society or mothers.”
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Amy Tan on Harper Lee

“I crossed a threshold of reader pride after finishing “To Kill a Mockingbird.””
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Amy Tan on Alice Hoffman

“Alice Hoffman takes seemingly ordinary lives and lets us see and feel extraordinary things.”
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Amy Tan on Louise Erdrich

“I read Louise Erdrich’s “Love Medicine,” with its strong multiple voices. The stories were bound by community and mutual loss. That later became a model for the structure of “The Joy Luck Club.””
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Amy Tan on Yiyun Li

“Among Chinese-American writers, two immediately come to mind: Yiyun Li and Ha Jin, with their particular mix of displaced characters, circumstances and past. Their stories often have tragedy, but rise above that. They elicit discomfort and compassion — good and necessary conditions that change me, as any writing is capable of doing by putting me in unfamiliar situations and magnifying the details I would have overlooked.”
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Amy Tan on Sonia Sotomayor

“I’m grateful for her wisdom and compassion on the Supreme Court. In June, Justice Sotomayor invited my husband and me to have a private lunch with her in her chambers. This was right when the justices began deliberations over the major cases. We talked about our mothers’ fears, about publishing, translations, snorkeling, adopted kids and cultural self-identification — all sorts of things, except the cases. I’ve read the first 10 pages of her memoir and know already that it’s like a continuation of the conversation we had.”
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Amy Tan on Rabih Alameddine

“For years, I have been heralding the work of Rabih Alameddine, a Lebanese-American writer. His prose is gorgeous, his approach irreverent, and the ideas in his stories are sometimes comical or fantastical, but always deadly serious — very relevant to understanding the complex history behind multiple holy wars today. In Italy and Spain, his books are best sellers. He has full-page profiles in major newspapers, has garnered prizes, is a darling of literary festivals and has won acclaim from international writers. In the U.S., he’s hardly known. Why is there a geographic divide in literary appreciation?”
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Amy Tan on Richard Ford

“I’ve loved all his books, from the characters to the parenthetical sentences. His voice always sounds so casual, as if the narrator is working it out in his head for the first time. There’s quiet intensity, an easy familiarity with the character. You know the habits in how the character thinks, what he might take into account. The narrator is more observational than judgmental, and forgiving in that way. It has much to do with a need to be rewarded for doing more, or compensated for following the rules or recognized as better for working harder. It’s not simple greed. It’s about a sense of self before and after you’ve taken the wrong road to a land of diminishing opportunity.”
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Ellen DuBois on Amy Tan

“A further measure of the importance of the feminism of women of color was the tremendous efflorescence in their fiction. The writings of Toni Morrison, Sandra Cisneros, Amy Tan, and Louise Erdrich, among others, played a major role in bringing the feminist message and perspective to the masses of American women.”

About Amy Tan

Amy Ruth Tan (譚恩美 Tán Ēnměi) (born February 19, 1952) is an American author best known for her novel The Joy Luck Club (1989), which was adapted into a 1993 film. She is also known for other novels, short story collections, children's books, and a memoir.